I just came back from the hospital, visiting my housemate, one of my oldest friends, who just gave birth. And somehow, it brought me back here.

It’s been almost two years since I first revisited The Question of Parenthood and tried to put into words how I felt then.

Looking back now, I realise that I was still — in some ways — shapeshifting.

Not entirely. But enough to blur the truth.

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